Mature Workers: Ageism in the Workplace
Although ageism can be a concern for mature workers, some employer-employee challenges cross all age brackets, all industries and all professionals. Bullying in the workplace is difficult to deal with, if the bully is a supervisor.
by Trilby McGaw
Article Summary: What are the definitions and characteristics of “bullying”? What do you do if you are being bullied at work? Do mature workers face challenges in the workplace?
Search for “workplace bullying” on the Internet and you will find a plethora of websites, articles and books devoted to describing, analyzing and eliminating the behavior. Bullying is a widespread and enormous problem that seriously affects productivity and the emotional well-being of those who are bullied. Luckily, interest in the topic is booming while tolerance for the behavior is waning.
Workplace bullying is an insidious problem that can be difficult to identify and to challenge, largely because bullies create a culture of fear and intimidation that discourages employees from asserting themselves. Bullying erodes self-worth, self-esteem and self-confidence. This in turn disempowers employees and alienates them from one another making them less likely to unite against a bully.
Jacinta Kitt, in an article for Mandate Trade Union, says “Bullying is progressive and escalating. It is coercive, insensitive and cruel. It communicates disrespect through words and actions. It takes laughter and fun out of lives and work and it diminishes the ‘feel good factors’ in the workplace.”
Examples of bullying include, but are by no means limited to:
- intimidating a person,
- yelling or using profanity,
- persistently criticizing a person, and
- belittling a person’s opinions.
Most of us don’t like conflict and we value our jobs. So when bullies are in management positions with the power to affect our working life, we tend to fear retribution, marginalization or worse being sacked. When you have a mortgage to pay or a family to support, standing up to a bully can feel like financial suicide. Putting up with abuse can seem like the safer option but this comes with a price.
Continuous aggressive behavior intended to intimidate, offend, degrade or humiliate a person affects the emotional and physical health of employees. Research suggests that employees who have been bullied in the workplace typically present with headaches, gastrointestinal problems, exhaustion, insomnia, anxiety, depression, burn-out, panic attacks, palpitations or dermatological disorders. Jacinta Kitt says that employees who have been bullied invariably exhibit great unhappiness and desperation. They are also frequently tearful, irritable, confused, sad or angry.
So why do organizations allow bullying to persist? Many managers are reluctant to address bullying for the same reasons that employees are. They lack the skills to confront bullies, they fear how the bully will retaliate and they hope the problem will just go away. This makes it unsurprising that studies show 1 in 5 people are bullied at work.
Impact on productivity
Research suggests that bullied employees waste between 10 and 52 per cent of their time at work. Instead of working, they spend time defending themselves and networking for support, thinking about the situation, being unmotivated and stressed, not to mention taking sick leave due to stress-related illnesses. Organizations who manage people well outperform those who don’t by 30 to 40 per cent.
There is general consensus that workplace bullying results in negative and destructive organizational effects, including:
- reduced commitment,
- higher absenteeism,
- high personnel turnover,
- lack of employee motivation,
- less creativity and vision,
- poor morale, and
- adverse publicity and poor public image.
Employees who are psychologically abused in the workplace have little time or mental energy for productivity. Abuse makes them disillusioned, exhausted, and burnt-out, unable to perform their jobs effectively or efficiently.
Profile of a bully boss
Research suggests that over 80 per cent of bullies are bosses and that a bully is equally likely to be a man or a woman. Jacinta Kitt’s research indicates that the key characteristics of workplace bullies are selfishness, self-obsession, inadequacy, insecurity and total insensitivity toward others. They are extremely autocratic, exhibiting an unrelenting need to be fully in control. They dictate how and what decisions are made, allowing no real debate.
She says that bully bosses exaggerate their own contribution and are reluctant to acknowledge the contributions of others. They adopt a territorial approach to running their workplaces and often use loud voiced aggressive tactics to dominate decision making and day-to-day operations. An important feature of the bully is their compulsion to have their own needs met at all costs. This compulsion is also highlighted in the bully’s constant demands for respect and consideration while persistently denying similar treatment to others.
Bully bosses, by their self-centered, selfish behavior, effectively treat their subordinates as non-persons. They frighten and belittle their victims in a vain attempt to conceal their own fears and to make themselves look big. They diminish the confidence and integrity of others in order to deflect attention from their own inadequacies. They use their power to disempower others.
