One of the hardest things about being in a relationship, especially over the longer term, is figuring out how to keep the spark alive. It’s hard to keep things exciting and interesting when things are stable and you’ve been together for years or even decades. But with a little creativity, you can make things a little more fun. If you’d like to know more about how to keep things feeling exciting, keep reading to learn about my top 3 ways to bring a little more spark into your marriage.
1. Watch A Movie Together
Watching a movie together can be a great way to connect. After all the damage the pandemic did for us socially, it might even be worth going out to a cinema to watch one together. Get dressed up, grab some drinks beforehand and make a night of it! If things are a little slow in the bedroom, why not consider watching the most horniest movie together to get a little excitement going. It can be a fast way to get in the mood without too much effort and might just be what your relationship needs to get things going again.
2. Break Your Routine
Sometimes having a hard and fixed routine can suck the romance out of a relationship. It’s a good idea to shake things up. Could you both take a Friday off work and instead of getting up and rushing out the door, lay in bed together and enjoy each other? What about going away on an adventure? Maybe you could go on an overseas trip for the Christmas break instead of doing the standard at-home Christmas. There are so many different ways you can break up your routine and add in a little excitement.
3. Try Dress Up
How far you go with this is up to you and Halloween is the perfect time to try. Why not invest in a sexy costume that makes you feel powerful and confident? Maybe your partner has expressed that they have a fetiish and you want to play into that. There are a few common ones that seem to excite most people, from nurse through to police officer. Be sure to take on a whole other personality when you’re dressing up and if you’re feeling a bit nervous, it might be worthwhile adding in a bit of alcohol to make things a little easier.
If you’re looking for more ways to spice up your relationship, check out the Love My Senses for more ideas.